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FAMILY & CONNECTION

“It’s me. I need help.” Verify the call first.

A familiar voice and an urgent story can be convincing. Use a separate call to check the situation.

THE SHORT VERSION

Even a familiar voice is not enough to verify an urgent request. End the call and contact your loved one using a number you already know. Bring another trusted person into the conversation.

A familiar situation

A caller sounds like a relative and says they need money immediately. They ask you not to tell anyone. You want to help. Taking time to verify the story is part of helping safely.

1. Notice pressure and secrecy

Requests to act immediately or keep the conversation secret are warning signs. Scammers may know personal details and may use technology to imitate a familiar voice.

2. Call back using a known number

End the call and contact the person through a number already in your contacts. Do not use a replacement number supplied by the caller. A familiar-sounding voice alone is not reliable confirmation.

3. Involve someone you trust

If you cannot reach the person, check with another family member or friend. Do this even if the caller demanded secrecy. Do not send money based only on the incoming call.

One thing to try today

Talk through a family callback plan while everyone is relaxed. Agree that checking an unexpected urgent request is welcome, even when the caller sounds familiar.

Read more from trusted sources

General educational guidance. If you believe someone has stolen your information or money, use the official recovery guidance at IdentityTheft.gov or ReportFraud.ftc.gov.

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